June302014

Anonymous said: P.S. - I saw those two photos of you on the post surrounding scars. I hope this doesn't make you feel uncomfortable, but I'd like to say that I think you're really gorgeous, and your scars don't affect my judgement whatsoever. If anything, I think they stand as testament to your individual strength and life experiences, as sappy as that may sound <3

thank you! yeah I kinda gave up on the blog awhile ago, I felt like I was just repeating myself. :/ but that really does make me happy. :) and my scars are pretty neat, they’re lighter now but still really noticeable, I like showing them off. :) 

March82014
deadlydinos:

youarenotyou:

lnfamy:

i never knew friendzoning boys was as easy as saying thanks im gonna use my manners more

further evidence that straight boys think compliments are magic words that are supposed to make women immediately strip naked 

What’s the appropriate, non-friendzoning response?
"You look pretty today."
"Okay, fine, I’ll suck your dick."

deadlydinos:

youarenotyou:

lnfamy:

i never knew friendzoning boys was as easy as saying thanks im gonna use my manners more

further evidence that straight boys think compliments are magic words that are supposed to make women immediately strip naked 

What’s the appropriate, non-friendzoning response?

"You look pretty today."

"Okay, fine, I’ll suck your dick."

(via carrion--child)

February52014

(Source: xkcd.com, via pencilcozy)

January152014

Anonymous said: Actually, "Nice Guy" syndrome does happen in the context of our society telling men (cis white men in particular) that women owe them sex and control over their bodies. You can be a "Nice Guy" no matter what your gender, but you are far more likely to do it if you've been trained to feel entitled to other people's bodies (and have societal support to back you up).

Oh definitely. That’s why it’s named Nice Guy Syndrome. If it were something that univerally affected every group of people, it’d be Nice Person Syndrome. However the societal views of “you’re entitled to a hot girlfriend” + male privilege means that it’s super encouraged in white cishet guys.

January122014

Anonymous said: You should queue some stuff on your days off so you don't have to worry or get a coadmin you trust.

I should get a co-admin. Any applicants?

10PM

Anonymous said: How does Nice™ syndrome work in the LGBT community? Are there also like Nice Girls™ and Nice Transguys™ for them?

a lot of people say Nice Gals and Nice Girls sometimes to distinguish, but honestly Nice Guy and Nice Guy Syndrome can really apply to anyone, regardless of gender or sexuality. also it’s weird to distinguish based on trans or cis. 

8AM

loregasmic:

you’re not in the friend zone because you’re too nice, you’re in the friend zone because they’re too nice.

instead of just telling you that you’re an ugly fuck, they went through the trouble of creating some sort of pocket dimension that doesn’t exist to spare your bloated ego even though you most likely don’t deserve that since you’re selfishly trying to get your dick wet under the guise of friendship and kindness anyway.

(via fireandiceandrageandspooky)

January52014

Anonymous said: I like how you're waiting for submissions from anon but never post them...

Not really. I mean, I started this blog when I was sick and unable to work, so I spent time scouring the internet for Nice Guy posts. Plus, most of the big ones that we see circulating, I’ve already addressed. I feel like I’m just repeating myself a lot at this point, so I don’t post as often.

December252013

betalars:

friend-zoning guys is horrible. it is disgusting. funzone them instead. send them to a small childs park so they can cry with the other babies when they dont get what they want.

(Source: plutoroyal, via theideaofbeinginlove-deactivate)

12AM

have you ever noticed that when a Nice Guy really likes a girl, he’s just following his heart ("I can’t help that I like you!”…”You lead me on!”…”I’ve felt this way since I met you!”…”I can’t change the way I feel!”)

but when that same girl really likes another guy, it’s apparently a cold, calculated move intended to screw him over ("Doesn’t she know that he’s a jerk?”…”How could she choose him?”…”I’m so nice to her, why wouldn’t she pick me?”…”What was she thinking?”

funny how that works. 

December232013

Anonymous said: SHITHEAD

so glad I turned anon back on

December162013
moshinqaround:

wannyy:

Maybe it’s ‘cause girls are constantly told that boys are mean to them ‘cause they like ‘em. How about no.

Finally someone said it.

moshinqaround:

wannyy:

Maybe it’s ‘cause girls are constantly told that boys are mean to them ‘cause they like ‘em. How about no.

Finally someone said it.

(via ishitmybrain)

December92013

Anonymous said: I'd personally say the actual nice thing to do is if you're at a door first, hold it open for people immediately behind you. Gender shouldn't matter.

1AM

Anonymous said: u think it's nice guy behavior when a dude opens the door for you you express your mild discomfort by saying something like "oh, you shouldn't have" he then says "i'm a gentleman" omg, he's f*cking gentle alright i cannot stand that guy, god

thanks for telling me what i think

12AM

Anonymous said: I find the whole Idea of the "Friend Zone" utterly ridiculous. When I meet a woman I am attracted to, I make it clear at the start that I could be interested in dating down the road, but I would like to get to know her first and am content with friendship should that be her choice. It's very simple. Make your intentions clear and take rejection like an adult. BUT, circulating this stereotype is bad because it can cause men to be rejected when they are perceived as meeting even a tiny part of it.

You’re putting the cart before the horse. The Nice Guy label is not a stereotype of all men, it’s a label applied after people have started exhibiting Nice Guy behavior. 

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