What The Fuck, "Nice Guys"?: Archive

What The Fuck, "Nice Guys"?

February 2012

22 posts

xvxavier: If you’re a “nice guy” to a girl up until you realize she doesn’t want to date you, then go on about how she’s a cold shrew that friendzoned you and how no girls date nice guys, like, nah mate, girls do date nice guys. You just aren’t a nice guy. You’re a passive aggressive beta with internalized misogyny and a serious victim complex.

Anonymous asked: i'm a female and i've heard all the arguments against that word but i still see nothing derogatory about it >_>

cardinal-bitchface asked: Not all females are women. Female and male are SEXES, not genders. The use of "females" by Nice Guys is wrong, but you can *not* call all females "women," as some people with female genitalia are men.

smellestine asked: in response to that last anon, "Female" is what you call a lab rat. "Woman" is what you call an adult human of the female gender. Girl is fine if they like it but technically it's still a tad condescending at it's core. As a default, call any adult person of the female gender "Woman". You wouldn't call a man "boy" unless you were talking down...

Anonymous asked: I've seen a few posts on here where NG's refer to women as "Females", which you would call them out on, and I thought to myself "When did female become a sexist term?" Is it a sexist term? Or is it just the context NG's are using it in?

Valentines' Day always seems to bring out the Nice...

Sorry it took me so long to make a v-day post, I was eating ice cream and masturbating all day (my typical v-day routine). Anyway, I got this submission from kororaa (thanks!) While the title is infuriating enough, the comments are even worse. Excuse me, but Emma is not obligated to date Riley. Nobody needs to have a quiet moment to commemorate a Nice Guy who was seen as just a friend, or as...

Anonymous asked: I'm not sure if my friend is a Nice Guy or not.

He's really awkward so his primary dating tactic is to become friends with girls first and then ask. When they say no/have a boyfriend he continues being friends with them and doing the same stuff with them just because he appreciates them as people. And although he doesn't think that girls only date jerks/the only...

Anonymous asked: I think you are very clever and what you are saying is mostly right. But I am wondering about one thing, isn't saying "nice guy" generalizing and/or insulting men?

Anonymous asked: Some guys do legitimately get led on, though. As do girls. And guys are definitely not the only ones to play "nice guy," I've had some of my best girl friends complain that the guy she liked was just "using her" to get to me, but she's the one who initiated everything. I definitely understand the whole "nice guy syndrome," I just thought I'd point out...

Anonymous asked: Is there a difference between a "Nice Guy" and a guy whose nice, if you know what I mean?

OKC Message: He "tried to be nice"

“It’s my birthday and I’m inebriated. You’re really cool. I tried to be nice and send a message, but it went ignored. I’m not very happy with that. *Leers* I was hoping you were different than the rest of the women on this site. As of yet, I’m not convinced you aren’t. I was really hoping to get to know you better. I’d love to hear back...

I married a Nice Man, not a "Nice Guy."

sanityscraps: shewalkslikethunder: missworded: Nice Man - makes dinner because he’s an adult and the adults in the household do chores because food is necessary for not dying. “Nice Guy” - makes dinner because he wants you to fuck him. Nice Man - puts you in bed after you’ve had too much to drink because people who care about one another behave in compassionate ways. Plus maybe the next...

smellestine asked: "so i escorted an old lady across the street. Cuz you know I'm such a good person. No one seems to get that about me. Well get this, she didn't give me any money. She just thanked me and went on her way. old people tend to have money to burn, that selfish bitch. I deserve something for being so nice to her!" This the kind of crap I hear from nice guys. Would you have another...

Anonymous asked: I think when Nice Guys are told that they are 'too nice' they misunderstand it as 'You're such a kind and good person, I just cannot handle it because I like jerks', when in fact what they are saying is 'Your niceness comes across insincere/pushy/two faced/too good to be true and it makes me feel uncomfortable, but I don't want to hurt your feelings'. Or...

I hear a lot of "Nice Guys" complain about how...

So, I compiled a list of a few people that might, at one point, have turned someone down for simply being too nice. Noticeably absent from this list is the majority of the human population. Wanna know why? Because most people don’t see being nice as a personality flaw. So “Nice Guys”, you might want to take a moment and ask yourself, “Did she really reject me...

silentdreamin asked: As a guy who has at one point or another, considered himself a "nice guy," I'm curious as to what you think causes this condition. I'm convinced that it stems from insecurity, more than anything else. Whatcha say?

Anonymous asked: You sound like a huge bitch.

January 2012

21 posts

Anonymous asked: i love your blog, but saying "Are you questioning their genitals, or" is transphobic

Anonymous asked: "Since they’re basically saying the same thing as before" You basically didn't read them. Or don't have a good rebuttal. But I'm done after this. Why should I talk to someone who clearly has no idea what sexism really means?

Anonymous asked: "Also, you referring to women as “bimbos” and “sluts” shows me that you have very little respect for women."Are you intentionally being dense? I didn't say that women in general were either bimbos or sluts. Nor did I say that men can't be sluts either. Many so called "players" are sluts. Nice try thou. "Maybe that could be the reason...

Okay, Anon from before sent me about 4 more...

Since they’re basically saying the same thing as before, and entirely missing the point, I don’t even feel like posting them. I said all I needed to say in the first one. Though I will reiterate one point: Anon, you complain about women generalizing men and calling them pigs, etc. But YOU are the one who keeps referring to two distinct groups of men, “Nice Guys” and...

duckstapler asked: just an observation: The reason that "girls date jerks" is because said jerks are the men posted here. Men who emotionally manipulate women by being nice to them and then pressuring them to date/fuck them in return. There is no mystical leather jacketed bad boy asshole who all the ladies swoon over. IT'S YOU AND PEOPLE LIKE YOU, "NICE GUYS."

Anonymous asked: Here is a question why is more tolerated for women to generalize all men as being dogs or pigs? And not so tolerated for men to generalize all women for going for a**holes. Not all men merely care about sex and having one stands with bimbos. Nor do all women go for a**holes. Yet society is more willing to look the other in terms of sexist generalizations when it's women doing it.

“Slut” is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say “yes”....”

– angels-and-angles this is an amazing quote (via livelaughawesome)

amorphousblob asked: I'd be interested in subscribing to this zine!

Would anyone be interested in submitting to a zine...

“Hello, A few days ago I came up with the concept for a zine I would call FUCK NICE GUYS. The zine, FUCK NICE GUYS, would be a safe space for female-identifying persons to vent, share experiences, empower one another and educate others about Nice Guys. I envision the zine to be filled with personal stories, poems, art and comics, articles and collages. I will be accepting submissions of...

The ninth circle of hell is the phrase, "Girls...

frass: diaryofacuntfacedbitch: I have been called an extremist before. Which usually serves as a laugh, because obviously someone who calls a seventeen year old blogger an extremist has no concept of suicide bombings, occults, or genocide. But truthfully, there are times when I feel like devising a plot to kill off the entirety of the human race. This is one of them. Welcome to The Nice Guy....

cherryvision-deactivated2012011 asked: Can you please not equate women with vaginas? It's rather cissexist because not all women have them and some men do.

December 2011

4 posts

Spoof on the “Boys are Stupid, Throw Rocks at Them” shirts by David & Goliath. Can apply to all genders, but definitely relevant. (thanks the-lottie-project!)

On the nice guy.

feistyfeminist: dearcoketalk: I’m “the nice guy” that is best friends with girls but never has sex with them. I had two girlfriends in high school for a month each and none since then. Every time I try to hook up with a girl she stops and leaves. I’m shy, so I have a hard time meeting girls. I know I’m my own worst enemy. I don’t drink and I don’t do drugs, and its hard to meet people at...

"Mr. Right" is probably in the 'Friend Zone' right...

daniellemertina: queennubian: itsexclusive: volkswagensex: Waiting and looking like a dumb ass Looking like this motherfucker here… Meh if he’s in the friend zone there’s a good reason. That’s really not creative… men telling women that we’re too irrational and/or dumb to choose the right men. Obviously, only the man who feels as if he’s been “friend zoned” is correct in the issue...

November 2011

12 posts

Nice Girl (TM):

feministslut: peecharrific: electric-asherah: prettywar: Constantly compares her more unique and/or modest style to that of girls who reveal more skin and wear high heels Makes a point of the fact that she either plays video games, reads books, or listens to cool music Complains about bad girls (Read: Sluts) who get the guy while she’s alone Totally confused about why she’s alone...