What The Fuck, "Nice Guys"?

teenwalfs:

redsuspenders:

if someone tries to neg you

kill them

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thepeacockangel:

What if a girl was super nice to you, but you found her unattractive somehow (maybe her values are different from yours, maybe she’s not physically your type, maybe you’re just not for whatever the reason attracted to her) and she presents herself to you as a friend.  She does nice things for you (buying you expensive gifts, comforting you when you’re sad, making you cookies, always being there for you, or just whatever.)

Maybe you get the sense she might be interested in you, maybe you don’t, but you like her enough as a friend you want to keep her around, because maybe you hope this girl is just a nice person, someone who really, truly and genuinely cares about you as a friend and wants to be friends with you… so you don’t bring it up.

Or maybe you do, and she refuses to stop, even if you tell her really clearly “No” and she still won’t stop, even if you date other girls, she’s ALWAYS there, trying to get your attention.

Maybe after awhile she gets mad, she tells everyone how CRUEL you are for treating a NICE girl like her so badly.  ”How come you’ll date those BITCHY CUNTY EVIL SLUTS YOU DATE but not a NICE girl like me, after ALL THAT I’VE DONE FOR YOU, you OWE me?”

Do you owe her your love?   I thought not.

What if she gets so mad you feel physically threatened?  What if she shows up at your house?  

Would you start maybe feeling uncomfortable when other women started making grand gestures of affection towards you before you showed them you were interested?

How come girls like that are called psycho and guys like that are called nice?

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hugginangryfeminist:

A few weeks ago I posted something about this one guy on facebook who wrote this ridiculous rant that was picked up by wtfniceguys.tumblr.com. Basically, your typical nice guy bullshit “I am nice to you and I don’t try and have unconsentual sex with you while you are drunk!” 

It was ridiculous, of course. Today, the assshitary has returned. 

I CAN’T TAKE HUMANITY RIGHT NOW. 

I want to unfriend him but this is given me a nice outlet to realieze how shitty people can be. One of the comments was like “You won’t find one in Livonia.” COUPLE THINGS, DOUCHEBAGS. 

1) My sexual status is not indicative of my worth as a human being.

2) Virginity is an outdated, sexist and heterosexist concept. 

3) I know this boy has slept with people before. Hypocrite. 

4) So much for the nice guys. Wonder why you finish last, idiot. 

So glad this guy is back, it gives me something to post about. :-P 

But ugh, I hate people like this!  The ones who claim they want to be with a “good girl”, “virgin” or anyone who hasn’t had a high number of sexual partners, even though they themselves sleep with plenty of people! 
But hey, just remember, he’s a Nice Guy okay?  He doesn’t rape his drunk friends or ignore their calls, CLEARLY he’s worthy of you sleeping with him!  Ya know, even if he does say things like “many girls are just illogical, manipulative bitches.”

So nice.  

(Source: marissaboleyn)

floormasterofanxiety:

sweetdreamr:

    

Okay, seriously, ENOUGH ALREADY. I am sick to death of hearing about how much of a bitch that girl is because she doesn’t want to fuck you. EVEN THOUGH you put in all your time listening to her problems and shit.

Never mind that you were hella dishonest about your ulterior motives. Never mind that SHE DID EXACTLY THE SAME THING FOR YOU. Only she didn’t expect anything in return.

Wait, who’s the bitch again?

You shared stuff. You know, kind of like friends do. Just FYI, friends are awesome. Not to mention that it gets wicked hard to make friends as you get older. So whyfor all the incessant complaining?

Wait. OMGURNOTGETTINLAID?!!! OH. WELL THEN. Thanks for nothing! I mean, seriously?

Because what you’re saying is, friendship with a woman is worthless if you’re not getting laid.

This is probably the most hurtful thing about hearing my guy friends complain about the ‘friend zone’—you act as though everything we’ve been through is completely worthless, because you didn’t get exactly what you wanted. YOU HAD A FRIEND, DUMBASS. THAT IS NOT WORTHLESS AT ALL.

But really? If that’s how you’re gonna be, you don’t deserve a friend at all.

absolutely must reblog

THIS.  I don’t really have anything else to add, this sums it up really well.

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stfuconservatives:

downlo:

When the Feminists came for the Rapists,
I remained silent;
I was not a Rapist.

When they locked up the stalkers,
I remained silent;
I was not a stalker.

When they came for the Players,
I did not speak out;
I was not a Player.

When they came for the men who they got bored of,
I remained silent;
I wasn’t some one they were bored of yet.

When they came for me, the nice guy,
there was no one left to speak out.

—From a Tumblr I won’t link here because it is so damned stupid.

This is adapted from a piece about Nazis, right? Sorry, Nice Guys (TM): you are not as persecuted as the Jews in Europe under Hitler. I know. Shocker. Someone had to tell you.

Hahaha! You’re right, feminists are really out to get everyone! Just normal guys, like the rapists, the stalkers, and the nice guys.  Because putting yourself in the same group as rapists/stalkers/players is totally something a nice guy would do. 

How on earth are you still single?
 

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